Kya Karu Ki Ladki Mujhe Like Aur Love Karne Lage?

Hi Friends, Aaj main apne ek friend ki baat sun kar kaafi soch me pad gyi, kya karu unki khani hi kuch aisi thi jise padh kar koi bhi sochne ke liye majboor ho jayega. Aap bhi is soch me pad gaye na ki, Are yaar aisi kya baat ho sakti hai jiske karan Shivshi jaisi smart ladki bhi sochne ke liye majboor ho gyi 😛 To chalo aapko bhi btati hu ki vo kya baat thi. Apne ek friend hai jo ek kudi ko bahut pasand karte hai aur dil-o-jaan se use dil hi dil me mohabbat karte hai par us ladki ki baate se kuch clear nhi ho pa rha hai ki uske dil me humare dost ke liye kya hai, suniye

Unki khani unhi ke jubani.

Mam plz meri help kariye….

Main ek ladki ko bahut chahta hu or unse bahut pyaar bhi krta hu, but mujhe unka nhi pata vo mujhse karti hai ya nhi ? Humari mulakat tution class me huyi thi … abhi 7-8 months se baat nhi ho rahi hai bcoz tution finish ho chuke hai. Ab hum log roz nhi milte, vo bahut hi jyaada shy hai or bahut cute bhi…Main unse bahut izzat se or kaafi respect se baat krta hun, unke naam ke aage ji laga ke baat karta hun. Ab humari baaten msgs ya call par hoti hai, but face to face bahut hi kam. Ek baar face to face baat huyi thi, to vo itni shaant khadi thi or unki nazren neechi thi…. Mujhe bhi unse face to face baat krne me shy feel hota hai….. ab main aapko bata du ki aaj se 3 saal pahle unka ek bf tha but kaafi jhagda hone ke baad ab unka breakup ho gya hai, isiliye ab unko jyadatar ladke pasand nhi or unka ladko par se vishwaas uth gya hai, ab vo sirf mujhse hi baat karti hai. Kyunki main unse kaafi izzat or respect se baat karta hu or faaltu ki baat kabhi nhi krta. Hum bus normally baat karte hai jaise ki study, dharmic etc.

Maine unse apne dil ki baat kabhi nhi ki, ek din call par himmat karke maine unse bahut hi jyada ghuma fira ke matlab indirectly kaha tha.. vo samajh gyi thi ki main kya kahna chah rha hu, fir unhone reply diya ki..

“I don’t know about this and I don’t have that type of feelings for you… maine aisa kabhi tumhare bare me socha nhi, aage ka main kuch kah nhi sakti, or vaise bhi ab main kisi se again love nhi kar sakti etc”

To ye sun-ne ke baad maine bhi unse fir kuch nhi kaha. Hum ab bhi baat karte hai, Hum dono ke beech bhut jyada baaten hoti hai, lekin bahut hi normal or ek limit ke andar. Us din ke baad maine unse kabhi apni feelings ke baare me kuch nhi kaha… Aur main nhi jaanta ki vo mere bare me kya feel karti hai, vo kya sochti hai ? Ek to bhut hi jyada shy hai.. to plzz mam mujhe bataiye ki main aisa kya kru ki vo mujhe like kare or love bhi. Maine unke liye bhut kuch kiya hai, mujhe jan-na hai vo mere baare me kya sochti hai. Main unko bhut, bhut se bhi jyada bhut chahta hu, ye mere life ka first time hai or first girl hai. To plzz plzz mam mujhe batayiye ki Main kya kru? Main aapse haath jodta hu mam plzzzzzzz meri help kriye mujhe bataiye main kya kru plzz ……

Shivshi ki suggestion 🙂

Dekho beta ji agar to aap ye jan-na chahte ho ki uski aapke baare me kya feelings hai, yaani ki vo aapko sirf apna ek dost hi manti hai ya kuch aur baat hai to aapko kuch cheezo par dhyaan dena padega. Kuch cheeze notice karke aap is baat ka andaza badi aasani se laga sakte hai ki aap uske liye special ho ya ek normal friend..

  • Is baat ko notice karo ki aapse baat karte huye vo kaisa behave karti hai, uska behaviour vaisa hi normal rehta hai jaise uske baaki friends ke saath rehta hai ya aapke saath hone par vo jyada Self-Concious ho jaati hai. Agar aisi baat hai to iska matlab hai vo nervous hai and vo aapko definitely ek dost se jyada manti hai.
  • Halanki, agar uska behaviour vaisa hi rehta hai jaisa normal har waqt rehta hai to bhi aisa nhi keh sakte ki uske dil me aapke liye koi feelings nhi hogi, ho sakta hai vo jaldi ye baat tumhe na btana chahti ho aur vo aapko parakhna chahti ho, isliye aap hamesha uske saath sache raho aur banawti mat bano.
  • Avoid the Friendzone : Ye point bhut hi jyada important hai, agar aap use chahte ho to apni feelings ke baare me Clear raho. Aap uski respect karte ho ye baat theek hai lekin yhi vo cheez hai jo ek friend aur boyfriend ko alag karti hai. Agar aap uske saamne bahut ache bane rahoge to vo aapko ek acha friend maan sakti hai lekin ek acha lover nhi. Aapko thoda flirty hona padega, thoda daring hona padega. Agar aap sirf uski respect aur feelings ki kadar hi karte rahe to vo aapko apne friendzone me dekhegi jo aap bilkul nhi chahoge. Isliye aap uske saath flirt karo. Agar aapko lagta hai ki aap flirt nhi kar sakte to jyada fikar waali baat nhi hai bas aapko try karna hai aur aap mehsoos karoge ye cheez jyada majedar hai, isse vo tumhe dusre najariye se dekhna shuru karegi.
  • Ek bahut badi sachayi ye hai ki, Jyadatar relationships marriage tak nhi pahuch paate aur fir hum normal friendship se bhi dur ho jaate hai, isliye jo bhi karo soch samajhkar karo and agar aapko lagta hai aap dono ke relationship ka koi future hai sirf tab hi aage badho.

See : Girlfriend Ki Care kaise Kare

Kya Kare Ki Vo Aapko Pasand Aur Pyar Kare

Apni Look Par Dhyaan Do : Is baat ka khaas khyal rakho ki jab aap usse milo tab aap best lag rhe ho, agar abhi tak aapne aisa nhi kiya hai to ye aapke liye bhut kaam ki cheez sabit ho sakta hai. Usse milne ke liye jaate time pajame me chappal pehan kar hi mat nikal jaao, apni personality achi bana kar jaao, saaf suthre kapde, ache shoes, good hair cutting and perfume laga kar jaao, taki milte hi use ek surprise mile, yakeen maano isse ek dum se uski feelings aapke liye badal jayengi aur vo khud aapki taraf aane ko majbur hogi.

Ek Ladki Ko Apni Taraf Attaract Kaise Kare Tips in Hindi

Be More Playful : Vo bhut shy hai koi baat nhi par aap bhi Shy bane rahne ki galti fir mat karna, aap usse baat karne me darte huye na dikho kyunki ek ladki sharmate huye achi lagti hai lekin ek ladka aisa karte huye bilkul bhi acha nhi lagta aur isse ladki ko ek negative message jaata hai, aap jab usse milo ya baat karo to ek dum cheerful dikho. Use ye dikhao ki aap darte nhi ho. Bina dare uski khubsurti ki tareef karo, uske saath flirt karo and uske saath majak karo. Use pata chalna chahyiye ki aap ek perfect Boyfriend material ho na ki ek bhut acha dost.

Physical Contact : Ek ladki hone ke naate main aapko ye baat samjha sakti hu ki ek ladki us ladke ko jyada pasand karti hai jo himmat wala ho, jisme apni baat kahne ki himmat ho aur jo daring ho. Agar aap uske saath baat kar rhe ho to uski tarah sharmate mat raho balki himmat karke use touch karo, touch jyada der tak nhi bas 2-3 seconds ka hona chahiye, use ye pata chalna chahiye ki aapme himmat hai, ye mat socho ki use bura lagega. Jab bhi aap log milo, dur se hi Hi karne ki bajaye – Smile ke saath uske saath hand shake karo aur jaate waqt Hug karo, pahli baar me ye cheez muskil lagegi par ek baar karne ke baad aapka hausla hjaar guna badh jayega. Vo aapke baare me dusre angle se sochne ke liye majbur ho jayegi.

Be Useful : Uski help ke liye hamesha taiyar raho, lekin ek baat ka khyal rahe ki aap uske naukar ki tarah behave na karo. Jo kaam vo khud kar sakti hai vo karne ke liye usko encourage karo and uski tareef karo, ye mat kaho ki vo kaam aap usse acha kar lete. Rudeness & Arrogant behaviour kisi bhi relationship ke acha nhi hota.

Ask Her Out : Usse bahar jaane ke liye pucho, vo mana kare to naraj hone ki bajaye usse khul kar baat karo aur use manane ki kosish karo. Aap uske boyfriend nhi ho par ek boyfriend ki tarah behave karo. Agar sharmile bane rahe to uske dil me aapke liye kabhi vo feelings nhi aayegi, so be cheerful, be funny, flirt with her and make jokes.

Ye sab vo cheeze hai jisse kisi bhi ladki aapki taraf attract hogi, agar vo aapki friend hai to aapko bas apna behaviour change karna hai and vo aapke baare me sapne dekhne aur sapne banane shuru kar degi. I really hope this article will help you to get ur girl in ur life. Best of Luck

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