Kya Aap Ladkiyon Ke Piche Apni Zindgi Barbad Kar Rahe Hai

Hi, Main aapse ek question puchna chahti hun.. “Kya aap vaisi life jee rahe hai jaisa aap jeena chahte hai?”  Sabki apni ek dream life hoti hai, Humare dimag me us life ki ek picture bani hoti hai…. jaisi hume jeena hai. Mera aapse ek simple sa question hai ki – `Kya aap abhi (is waqt) apni vo Dream life jee rahe ho?`

Maximum logon ka jawab hoga, `Nhi`.

Par, Kyu? Ye puchne par jo jawab milta hai vo lagbhag aisa hota hai : Ye impossible lagta hai. Vaisa ho paana bhut muskil hai. Vaisa sambhav nahi hai. Mere Paas vo life jeene ki opportunity nhi hai. Confidence nhi hai. Ya.. Vo life jeene ke liye jo sab chahiye unme se mere paas kuch nhi hai. Aur in sab ke upar ek common jawab aata hai ki – `Pta Nhi`. Bahut hi aasani se hum keh dete hai – `Mujhe sach me nhi pata ki Main vo life kyu nhi jee pa rha hu jo main jeena chahta hu.`

Ab Main aapse ek aur question puchti hun – “Kya aapne vo life hasil karne ki kosish ki jo aapka sapna hai?”

Bahut se logon ka jawab hoga, – `Haan, vo to main roj karta hu, Usi ke liye to job kar rha hu, usi ke liye itni padhayi ki hai. Ye choti badi cheeze jo main roj karta hu, jo itni mehnat karta hu vo usi ke liye to karta hu.`

Acha chalo theek hai to Main yhi sawal aapse thoda dusre tarike se puchti hun – `Kya aapne sach me apni Dream Life hasil karne ke liye us had tak mehnat ki hai jitni aap kar sakte hai? Kya aapne apna best of the best (110%) kosish ki hai uske liye? Kya aapne kabhi baki sab cheez chor kar apni sapno ki zindgi ko sach banane ki kosish ki hai?

Ye cheez sun kar bhut se log chup ho jaate hai. Vo answer hi ni de sakte. Vo “No” nahi kehna chahte because vo sab logon ke samne kamjor or looser ki tarah dikhayi nahi dena chahte. Aur vo “YES” bhi nhi kahenge because vo khud andar se jante hai ki, agar vo `Haan` kahte hai to vo jhooth hoga, unhone kabhi is tarah se kosish hi nhi ki, Unhone apne best efforts ke saath kabhi kosish nhi ki.

Ab main aapse final question puchna chahti hun – “Kya aapne apni Dream life ko achieve karne ke liye utna hard work kiya hai jitna ek ladki ko paane ke liye karte ho?

Ab agar aap is bare me soch rhe hai to Main aapko bata deti hu, iska jawab `No` hai. Aapki dedication girls ko paane ke liye lajawab hai. Har din aap pta nhi kitni alag alag girls ko Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp par messaging karte rahte ho, use follow karte hai, uski status & photos like aur share karte rahte ho. You don’t give a crap about vo kon hai, aur vo relationship me hai to fir bhi vo aapse baat kyu karna chahti hai. Aap un girls ko text karte rahte hai jise aapne dekha bhi nahi hota hai. Yha tak ki aapko ye bhi pta nahi hota ki vo sach me ladki bhi hai ya nhi aur uske piche aap apna pura time – days and nights – chatting karne me laga dete hai. Aap ek hope leke chalte hai ki kya pata ladki pat jaaye. Doston ye bilkul pagalpanti hai.

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Is baat ki koi guarantee nahi ki jin ladkiyon ke piche aap itna keemti time spend kar rhe ho unme se koi bhi  aapko kabhi date bhi karegi. But aap har din try karte rahte ho. Aap un ladkiyon se reject ho jaate ho jinse aap kabhi mile bhi nahi hote ho. Agar 10 girls me se 9 girls aapko message back nahi karti, aapki friend request accept nahi karti, to aap 90% apne task me fail ho jaate ho. But phir bhi aap himmat nahi harte ho. Aap try karne me lage rahte ho.

Ab aap socho kya aapne itne junoon se apni life me apna sapna sach karne ke liye mehnat ki hai kabhi. Aksar log kisi cheez ke liye 1-2 baar try karte hai aur agar vo nhi ho paata to fir use chor dete hai, boys aur youth me ye cheez bhut jyada dekhne ko milti hai. Lekin agar vhi ladka 1-2-3-4-5….. pta nhi kitni ladki se reject ho jata hai aur tab bhi vo kosish karta hai. Mere dost, yhi to cheez hai itne junoon se aap kosish karo apni zindgi ke sapne sach karne ke liye to aisa kuch bhi nhi hai jo aap hasil na kar sako.

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Doston apne andar ki will power ko dekho. Bas ek second ke liye imagine karo ki.. agar aap apna sara time save karte hai aur apni sari power, hope, intelligence aur junoon ko kisi hot girl, love of life par lagane ki bajaye, apne upar lagate hai to khud socho aap kya haasil kar sakte ho.

Kabhi aapne socha hai, why most girls Friend zone guys? Vo aisa emotional support ke liye karti hai. Jab bhi unhe apni life me koi problem hoti hai, ya kisi help ki jaroort padti hai, ya unhe motivation, inspiration ki jarurat hoti hai tab vo aapko call karti hai. Aur aap apna sara kaam side me rakh ke, sara time and energy unhe motivate karne me laga dete ho, unki problem solve karne me laga dete ho or pta nhi uski khushi ke liye kya kya kaam karte ho.

Jis time vo khush hoti hai, us waqt vo apne boyfriend ke pass jaati hai. Jab usse sex ki jaroort hoti hai, tab vo apne boyfriend ke pass hi jati hai. Jis time use hang out karne ka man karta hai vo apne boyfriend ke pass jati hai. Uska boyfriend hamesha uske liye pahle aata hai. But, jab vo kisi karan depressed (preshan) hoti hai ya use kisi kaam me help kisi ki help jaroort hoti hai, tab vo aapke bare me sochti hai.

Basically aap apni andar ki sari power, positivity ka istemal kisi aur ko successful banane ke liye karte ho.

Why and for what?

Aapko ye baat samajhni hogi, Vo sirf aapka emotional support ke istemal liye karti hai, jab usko aapki jaroort nahi hoti tab vo aapke bare me ek pal liye sochti bhi nhi hogi. Aap uske liye koi mayne nhi rakhte.

Main khud personally aise bhut se ladkon ko janti hun jo ghanto ghanto kisi na kisi ladki ko text karne me lage rahte hai. Kitne aise ladke hai jo ladki ke piche saalo tak pagal bane rahte hai. Kitne aise hai jo apni ex-girlfriend ko kyi saal tak bhula nahi paate. Kitne aise hai jo ladki ke sath time spend karne ke liye unke drivers, yhan tak ki unke naukar tak bane huye hai. Kuch aise hai jo ladkiyon ki problems ko solve karne ke liye khud bahut se dard sahte hai. Aur ye sab sirf is umeed me ki ek din to vo uske pyar me pad jayegi.

Aap apna sara time relationships ko de dete hai or mushkil se apne careers ke bare me kuch sochte hai. Kuch ladke to bechare aise hai jo badi mehnat se ladkiyan patate hai but vo Girls unhi ki life ko barbad karti hai aur unke liye hamesha kuch na kuch problems khadi karti aati hai.

In sab ke badle me aapko kya milta hai? NOTHING.

Vo aapko date bhi nahi kar rhi hai. Aapko main ek baat seedhe seedhe batati hu, agar usne aapke date karna hota to, usne kiya hota. Ab agar vo aapko date nhi kar rhi to isse koi fark nhi padta ki vo kisi aur ko date kar rahi hai ya nahi kar rhi.

Agar vo bore ho rhi hai aur uska boyfriend kisi kaam me busy hai to vo aapko text karti hai taki uska time pass ho jaye. Aur hzaron ladke hai jo ladkiyon ke liye khushi se ek timepass karne waali cheez ban-ne ke liye taiyar hai. Aise log ye jaan kar bhi ki unhe isse kuch nhi milne waala, un ladkiyon ke talve chatne ko bhi taiyar ho jaate hai. Vo kuch bhi karne ke liye taiyar ho jaate hai sirf is baat ke liye ki vo ladki apne free time usse thoda chat kar le. Iske alawa unhe is cheez se kuch bhi nhi milne waala.

Kya aapki zindgi ki yhi keemat hai! Insaan ki zindgi ka itna bada gift aapko bhagwan ne diya hai jisme aap apni mehnat aur lagan ke dum par kuch bhi haasil kar sakte hai vo aap barbad kar rhe ho kisi girl ke sath chatting karne me? Aur unme se bhi aadhe se jyada ladkiyan already kisi dusre insaan ke saath dating kar rhi hoti hai.

Fir kis khushi me un ladkiyon se chat karte rahte ho?

“Oh, main isliye usse chat karta hun kyuki vo meri friend hai, not because main usse sex karna chahta hun!” Really ?

Acha! kya sach me? Kya aap apne kisi male friend ko bhi utna hi text karte hai jitna us ladki ko?

Guys, Friends, brothers, pls samjho ki aapko ye sab band karne ki jarurt hai. Is tarah ki sab faltu kaam ko ek dum abhi isi waqt se totally band karne karo. No more excuses. No more bullshit.

Aapko apni saari energy aur sari power ko idhar udhar ki girls ke piche bhaag kar barbad karna band karna hoga. Agar aap kisi ladki ke piche pagal hai, to get out of it right now. Agar aap apni ex Girlfriend ke piche pagal hai to aisa karna band karo yaar. Agar aapko koi ladki sirf tab call karti hai jab use kisi help ki jarurat hoti hai aur aap ye jante hai to Bhaad me jaane do use. Apna attitude badlo aur use abhi isi waqt bina koi der kiye apni life se bahar nikalo.

Socho aapki life ki keemat kya hai aur aap kin faltu kaamo me ise barbad kar rhe ho. Vo sab cheez karna band kar do jo aapko apne Dream Life ko achieve karne se rok rahe hai. Aap puchoge, Kyu? Main aisa kyu karu? Aisa karne se meri life nhi badal jayegi.

Aapko main 4 reasons deti hu jinse aapko ye baat samajh aa jayegi ki aapko faltu ki sab harkate karna aur ladkiyon ke piche time barbad karna band kyu kar dena chahiye.

1. Self Esteem (आत्म सम्मान)

Agar aap kisi bhi ladki ko friend requests bhejte ho or messages karte ho, to aapko ye kaise pata chalega ki, us ladki ne aapko reject kyu kiya hoga? Kya aapko pta hai ki usne aapse dosti kyu ki or aapko date kyu nhi kar rhi hai, jab vo isi dauran ek new boyfriend banati hai to usne aapko date kyu nhi kiya. Aapko ye cheez kabhi bhi nhi pata chalegi.

Lekin, in sab ke beech ek cheez jarur hoti hai… ye rejection aapki self respect (आत्म सम्मान) ke par bhut serious asar chorti hai. Aur isse aapko vo negativity milti hai jiski aapko na to koi jaroort hai or na hi aap vo jillat deserve karte ho. Rejection ke piche reasons aapke bare me us ladki ka khud ka opinion hota hai. Iss behaviour se aap par iska asar padna hi nahi chahiye, because you can’t really control what other think about you. So protect your self esteem. Apni self esteem (apni ijjat) kisi aise insaan ke haath me mat do jo baad me ise kuchal de… vo bhi kisi aise ladke ke liye jo apne daddy’s money par dependent rahta hai, jisse uske cars, booze (sharab) and parties ka kharcha nikalta hai. So guys aapko bina vajah life me kisi tarah ki rejection jhelne ki koi jarurat nhi hai. Aur isi liye aapko vo sab karna band karna hoga.

2. Acheivement is Better

Friends, aap mujhe btao ki love ke baad sabse acchi feeling konsi hai? Vo feeling hai – Achievement Waali. Achievement ki feeling love se jyada behtar aur permanent hoti hai. Ye feelings marte dum tak aapke sath rahti hai. Jab aap apni aakhiri saanse gin rahe honge us waqt, aapko love ka regret ho ya na ho par agar aapne mauka milne par bhi vo nhi kiya jo aapka sapna tha, to aapko iska afson jarur hoga.

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3. Money

Paisa aapko ek better lifestyle de sakti hai, better options provide karti hai or ye aapko aapki life me vo sab karne ki aazadi deti hai jo aap hamesha se karna chahte hai. Successful banane ke piche saalo saal jo dard apne liya hai use bhul jao. Successful bano, aapko world ki sabse sundar ladki bhi mil jayegi (agar aap chahe to).

Agar aapko meri baat par yakeen nahi hota to friends aap bas ek chota sa kaam karo. Kisi bhi matrimonial site (shaadi.com, bharatmatrimony.com, jeevansathi.com) par abhi jaa kar ID banao aur dekho in sites ki sabse sundar Girls ki expectations kya hai. Unko is baat se koi khaas fark nhi padta ki insaan dikhta kaisa hai ya uski personality kaisi hai. Agar aap successful ho to aapke look and personality ko itna koi nahi dekhta. Sab usi insaan ko dekhte hai jo usse 5 guna (5X) se bhi jyada kamata hai. Kyu? Simple si baat hai, girls successful person ki taraf jyada attract hoti hai. Aur ye koi chupi huyi baat nhi hai.

✮ Sabse Important Reason : Help Other

Agar aap apne andar ki saari energy aur junoon ko apne aapko safal banane me aur apni zindgi ko badalne me laga dete ho to, ultimately aap apne aas-paas ke logon ki bhi life change kar sakte ho.

Chalo main aapse ek simple sa sawal puchti hu, last time aapne kab ek ladki ke upar paise kharch kiye the? Kisi bhi cheez ke liye, jaise ki Dinners, Movies, Lunches, Gifts, Shopping, ya uske phone recharge par bhi jisse aap dono ke beech baat hoti hai. Bas Aap vo saare paise calculate karo jo aapne us ladki ke piche kharch kare hai, chahe vo ladki aapki girlfriend ho ya na ho.

Ab mujhe ye btao ki, last time aapne kab apni mother ke liye kuch paise spend kiya tha? Last time kab aap apni mammi ko dinner ya lunch ke liye khi bahar le kar gaye the, kab unko koi gift diya tha ya unka mobile recharge karwaya tha?

Ab Ladki par kiye gaye kharch ko parents par kiye gaye kharch se compare kro. Fark aapko najar aa jayega.

Guys, it’s literally my request to you, Please stop spending your money on relationships jo ki abhi start bhi nahi hua hai, or us relationship me bilkul na raho jiska matlab hi money spend karna hai.

Paiso se aap apne aas paas ke logon ki life change kar sakte ho, apne parents ki life, apne brother and sister ki life or specially un logo ki jinhe money ki jaroort hoti hai. Khud socho na yaar, ladki ke liye diamond necklace ya uske expansive cloth par paise kharch karne ki bjaye aap kisi jaruratmand ko education de sakte ho. In sab se aapko vo khushi milegi jo aapko ek aisi ladki zindgi me kabhi nhi de sakti jo kisi matlab ke liye aapse guft-gu karti hai. Vo sirf aapka fayda uthati hai aur aapke peeth piche aapke baare me ek acha word bhi nhi bolti. Use koi fark nhi padta aap theek bhi ho ya nhi. Aapko aisi cheezon se duri badhane ki kosish karni chahiye aur Jab aisi ladki aapse dur ho to aapko upar waale ka shukriya ada karna chahiye.

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Ye 4 important reasons hai jinke liye aapko kuch der ke liye shanti se baith kar ye sochne ki jarurat hai ki aap jo kar rahe hai aapko sach me uski jarurat bhi hai ya nahi nhi. Khi aap apna keemti waqt kisi faltu ki cheez me to nhi gawa rahe jiska koi matlab hi nhi hai. Dusri baat, vo jabardast dedication yaad karo, jo aap un faltu & meaningless relationships ko chalane ki kosish me barbad kar rhe ho. Aur apni dedication ko Ladkiyon ki bajaye apni life ko behtar banane ki taraf shift karo.

In the end Main bas aapse yhi request karungi ki, Please yaad rakho aapke kuch dreams hai or aapki help karne ke liye koi nahi hai. Koi bhi aapki help sirf tab karega jab vo ye dekhega ki aap khud apni puri mehnat se kosish kar rhe ho. Isliye sahi raste par chalne ka faisla aapko khud karna hai aur aapko ye yaad rakhna hoga ki ek ek second behad keemti hai. Aise me aapko apna time kha kharch karna chahiye ye soch samajh kar aage badhe. Aapko ye article kaisa laga hume jarur btana aur like and share karne ke liye to kahne ki jarurat nhi padni chahiye, itni achi cheez likhi hai ise sabke saath share jarur kare. 🙂

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