Jis Ladki Se Pyar Karta Hu Vo Dost Manti Hai, Main Kya Karu?

Humare ek dost Rahul aaj-kal kuch preshan chal rahe hai aur jaisa ki sab jante hi hai ki, sirf ek saccha dost hi preshani ke time ek dost ki help karta hai isliye Rahul ne humse help mangi hai aur apna dost dharam nibhate huye hum bhi unki help jarur karenge. Baat ye hai ki, Vo bechare ek ladki se bahut pyar karte hai aur use apni life partner banana chahte hai par ladki hai ki dosti ke platform se aage badhne ko taiyar hi nhi ho rhi hai. Ab humare dost ko samajh nhi aa rha hai ki vo kya kare. To chaliye doston Rahul ke sawal ko detail me padhte hai aur fir kosish karte hai unko kuch kaam ki baat batane ki… 🙂

Rahul ka sawal..

Hi mam, dis is Rahul… mujhe ek ladki se love ho gya hai or uske sath meri dosti ko ek saal ho gya hai. Aur mai usse bina baat kiye reh nhi pata hu. Mai jab baat nhi karta hu to Vo mujhe khud bol deti hai – Kya baat hai aaj kisiko baat nhi karna hai kya..?

Mai usse Saadi karna chahata hu but vo Shaadi ke liye Haa nhi bol rhi hai.. Vo sirf mujhe as a friend rakhti hai.. Btaiye Mai kiya karu?… Main usko kabhi call ni karta hu, jab uski call aati hai sirf tab hi baat hoti hai uski aur meri. Jab bhi vo kahi ghumne jaati hai to mujhe apni pics jarur deti hai. Uske bahut safe boys me friend hai but bolti hai ki koi bhi mera Bf ni hai. am single. Plz help me. Mujhe uske bina kissi kaam me mann ni lgta hai, Main use kisi bhi haal me paana chahta hu.

Jis Ladki Se Pyar Karta Hu Vo Dost Manti Hai, Main Kya Karu

Shivshi ka jawab..

Hello dear Rahul… sabse pahle to ye clear kar lena bahut jaruri hai ki Bhabhi bhi tumse pyar karti hai ya fir ye pyar ki Mashal sirf apni tarah se hi jal rahi hai. Aur isse bhi important ye ki pahle theek se soch aur samajh lo ki kya uske saath tumhara acha future possible hai ya nhi, kya agar vo tumhe mil jaati hai to tum khush reh paoge.

Kahi aisa na ho ki – Hzaar kosishon ke baad ladki ko paa liya, apni bana liya aur baad me ghar waalon ka koi issue ho jaaye! Ya fir tumhe khud hi uska nature pasand na aaye, because jaisa ki tumne bataya uski aur bhi kyi boys se dosti hai to aise me agar vo tumhari ho bhi gyi aur apne doston se baat karti rhi to tumhe problem to nhi hogi. Is tarah ki basic baatein youth normally nahi sochti hai aur fir baad me inhi reasons ki vajah se zindgi narak ban jaati hai. Isliye aage badhne se pahle acchi tarah se vichar kar lena behad jaruri hai.

Agar ab bhi tumhe theek lagta hai aur ab bhi tum use apne Aangan ki Tulsi banana chahte ho to chalo mission par kaam chalu karte hai.

Ab usse jab baat ho to baat baat me use apne dil ki baat batane ki kosish karo. Use batao ki tum use pasand karte ho, use apni banana chahte ho, usse bahut pyar karte ho aur uske bina tumhara kisi kaam me mann nahi lagta. Aur fir dekho ki vo kya response deti hai.

Agar to vo tumhari baaton ko samajh rhi hai aur jo tum keh rahe ho uske baare me deep me baad kar rhi hai tab to theek hai lekin yadi vo tumhari baaton ki taraf dhyan hi nhi de rhi aur un sab baaton ko hansi me uda rahi hai to baat aisi hai ki use tumse pyar nhi hai. Yaa fir… shayad hai but use bhi pata nhi hai.

Ab ye pata lagane ke liye ki uski life me aapki kya jagah aur kitni importance hai tumhe thoda muskil kaam karna hoga, aur vo muskil kaam ye hai ki – Kuch dino ke liye usse har tarah ka contact khatam kar do… No msg, no call, nothing, uski call aaye to utho bhi mat...

Agar to uske upar tumhari is absense ka koi khas fark nhi pada aur vo apni life me jaisi thi vaise hi khush hai to ye baat yhi saaf ho jaati hai vo tumhe sirf ek dost manti hai aur tumhare hone ya na hone se use koi bhut jyada farak nhi padta.

Aise me mere friend, Main tumhe yhi salah dungi ki Life me sabse keemti cheez hai – Time. Aur is time ko ladki ke piche bewakoofi me bevajah barbad mat karo. (must read : Kya Aap Ladki Ke Piche Apni Zindgi Barbad Kar Rahe Hai) Apni life me aage badho aur apne mann ko control karo. Sach ko jitna jaldi pehchan liya jaaye aur use maan liya jaaye utna hi acha hota hai. Feelings ka hona theek hai par akalmandi se kaam lena jyada jaruri hai.

But agar vo tumhari absense se preshan hone lagti hai, tumhe baar-baar msg aur call karti hai to iska matlab hai ki uske dil me kam se kam tumhare liye ek khaas jagah jarur hai. Use call aur msg karne do, kisi bhi msg aur call ka jawab mat do aur fiir kuch dino baad achanak uska phone uthao. Vo puchegi ki tum itne din se kahan ayab the, mera phone phone bhi nhi utha rahe the aur kisi msg ka reply bhi nhi kar rhe the. Aisa kyu kar rhe the to use btao ki –

Yaar baat ye hai ki Main tujhse bhut pyar karta hu, but tujhe mujh me interest nhi hai so Main life me aage badhna chahta hu aur aise life barbad nhi karna chahta. Mujhe life me kuch banna hai, ek bada insan, ek safal beta banna hai isliye main ab in sab cheezon se dur hu. Jab humari is dosti ka koi future hi nhi to jarurat se jyada najdiki badha ke bhi nuksan hi hoga. Tujhe ho na ho kal ko mujhe bhut dukh hoga dur hone ka, so acha yhi hai ki abhi sambhal jaya jaaye.

Iske baad vo ladki sochne ke liye majbur ho jayegi aur uske dil me agar tumhare liye thodi si bhi feelings hongi to vo jarur tumhari taraf attract hogi aur ho sakta hai tumhari dilruba tumhe mil jaaye.

So Friends, mujhe puri umeed hai ki – Maine jo bhi Rahul ko bataya aap usse sehmat honge. Yadi aapko meri koi baat galat lagi ho ya aap Rahul ko kuch aur batana chahe to please niche diye huye Comment box me comment karke jarur bataye.

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