Bhut Kosish Ki Par Main Use Bhul Nhi Pa Rha Hu

Hello Doston, Main aapki friend Shivshi. Humare is Love & Relationship hindi website ke ek reader ne Apni Love LifeΒ ke baare me humse ek sawal pucha jo hume laga ki aap sabke saath share karna chahiye, isliye hum unka sawal aur uska apni taraf se best jawab aap sab ke saath share kar rhe hai..


Sawal tha ki..

Hello madam ji.. Baat aaj se thik 3 saal pahle ki hai. Mai ek ladki se bahut jayda pyar kartha tha.. Vo ladki bhi mujhe bahut pyar karti thi. Hum dono ek dusre ke sath bahut khush the or ek dusre ko bahut achhi tarah samjhte bhi the. But uske ghar me mere karan ek problem ho gyi or ek din usne mujhe kaha ki usne mere saath break up karna hai. Maine socha ke meri wajah se ise bahut problems hai isliye maine bol dia ki `Theek hai`. Break up ke baad usne mujhe bahut sms aur phone bhi kiye but main hmesha hi usse ingore karta raha, jaan boojh kar taki fir se use mere karan koi problam na ho.

Aaj 2 sal ho gye humare break up ko but aaj bhi main use kyu yaad krta hu, maine pyar ke liye apne dil ke saare darwaje band kar liye fir bhi uski yaadein kyu mera peecha nhi chhodti. Uske sath meri last time baat ko bhi ek saal se jyada ho gya. Maine hamesha use ye dikhane ki koshis ki ke Main bahut khush hu aur use miss nahi krta. But uske alawa aaj tak maine kisi or ladki ko us najar se nahi dekha or na mere dil me kisi ke liye vo khayal aata hai.

Main use bhoolne ke liye kya karu - sad emotional love alone miss u

Halanki maine bahut try kiya ki kisi or ladki ke sath relationship shuru kru but us jaisi feeling hi nhi aati jo use dekh kar aati thi. Aaj sayad usne apna naya relation bana liya hoga kisi aur ke sath but mujhe koi problem nhi kyunki main use hamesha khush dekhna chahta hu. Lekin Mai kya kru ki uski yado se chutkara pa saku.?

Pichhale 2 saal se try kr rha hu kabhi lgta hai mai bhul gya use fir kabhi lgta hai ke Main use kabhi bhul nahi sakta.Β Please mujhe bataye mujhe kya krna chahiye. Please.

Jawab..

Dekho Friend jo cheez aapke saath ho rhi hai vo bhut hi normal baat hai sab lovers ke liye jo kisi karan apna pyar gava chuke hai. Jab hum kisi ko jaan se bhi jyada chahte hai aur vo achanak humari zindagi se chala jata hai to bhut dukh hota hai, lekin yakeen maano aisa sirf aapke saath hi nhi hota. Bhut se aise log hai jo life me is phase se gujarte hai but jo samajhdar hote hai vo samajh jaate hai ki isse kuch hone wala nhi sirf aur sirf Time Barbad hoga aur kuch nhi. Jis cheez ke liye hum kuch kar nhi sakte uske liye itna sochne se koi fayda nhi hai.

Mujhe maloom hai aap khoge ki “Lekin main use yaad nhi karta, Vo khud yaad aa jaati hai” Hanji ye baat shi hai, aisa hota hai aur is problem ka ek hi best solution hai – Khud ko bhut busy rakho. Ek dost ne apni same aapki wali story (Dil Usse Milne Ke Liye Tadap Rha Hai – Main Kya Kru ?) shari ki thi humare saath, humne unhe bhi yhi kha ki khud ko busy kro, unki problem bhi bilkul aapki wali thi. Lekin fark sirf itna hai unhone baat ko samjha aur apne kaam me puri tarah se busy ho gye, kuch dino pahle unhone mujhe mail bhej ke Thanks kha. Unhone btaya ab unki life me sab theek hai, vo khush hai aur apne kaam me vyast hai, kabhi kabhi pyar ki yaad aa bhi jaati hai lekin use haseen yaad ki tarah jeete hai, uske karan preshan nhi hote.

Aap bhi humari baat mano aur khud ko busy rakhan shuru kro, yaad tab hi aati hai jab humara dimag free hota hai agr dimag har waqt kaam me busy rhega to vo khud-b-khud kam yaad ayegi. Aap jo bhi kaam karte hai usme busy rhe, sham ko ghar aa kar ghar ke bachon ko padhane me busy ho jaaye, doston ke saath baatein kre, ghoome fire. Life enjoy kare.

Mujhe umeed hai `Apne pyar ko bhoolne ki kosish` me aapko meri salah jarur achi lagegi aur aap ise apnaoge. Agr padhne wale readers ko koi salah deni ho to vo bhi niche diye gaye comment box se de sakte hai. Agr kisi ki koi problem ho to vo bhi pich sakta hai, hum aapki usse jyada help krenge jitni hum kar sakte hai. πŸ™‚

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